You're full of contradictions, for example:
If you did not find it offensive does not mean it is not offensive. That's not how it works. What is offensive or not depends on the person. AND just because a person finds it offensive, it does not mean they are wrong or touchy.
Right. But also, if you find it offensive doesn't mean it IS. In reality, there is no right or wrong. Those are morals created by people. Different people have different views, opinions, and beliefs. If two disagree on something, neither of them is right or wrong. Because in reality, there IS no right or wrong. So I don't know where you're trying to get.
That being said, arguing about whether there is sexism or racism in these movies is pointless. This thread is pointless. There's no win or lose here.