What do you feel about suicide?
Posted 25 May 2005 - 05:41 PM
i feel that suicide is a really dumb choice that people choose when they wanna run away from their problems. i mean.. it's so stupid, just because you're a stupid wimp, you have to go and hurt everyone that loves you just because you can't be a man.. or a woman.. and get some help, sheesh, people who cut themselves, commit suicide, have drinking problems, etc, really bug me.
Posted 26 May 2005 - 10:55 AM
Posted 26 May 2005 - 11:06 AM
Suicidal people are people with real problems beneath the surface, people don't recognize when kids withdraw from the world might just not being feeling good, it's the kids who you would never think to do such a think is the one who would be suicidal. You can't pin point one certain person by the way they dress or how they act that may give you thoughts of them being suicidal. If parents and teachers and friends would look at the wide aspect of everyone's life without getting too involved we could save a few lives now and then. There is no cure, and sadly we can't have anti-suicide gangs knock on everyone's door to check on people. We just have to do the best we can, when we can to make sure the stress, pain and agony that may be torturing someone is put to a rest. My cousin was suicidal and I was their to witness her almost take her life, she was a 14 year old gir, now 16, l who never looked like anything was wrong. She had life in her hands I should say, her parents were very loving and supportive, no one ever teased her, but deep inside some thing was brewing, a suicidal act she had almost got a way with. She realizes what she almost gave up: a chance to raise kids one day, live happy with her husband, get a good job, help others. So to answer the question, I feel suicide is the not worst thing could happen, people are being killed by other people, that's the worst thing. I feel suicide like others have said, is uncurable, but not unstoppable, we can prevent it by actually taking a care to what's going on in people's life. The people outside of the suicidal person's life are the selfish ones, they don't take into consideration whats going on because they appear to make life seem at ease in their world, when everything may be the total opposite.
Posted 26 May 2005 - 02:14 PM
I personally wanted to commit suicide before cuz My parents couldnt stop yelling at me, putting me down, and discouraging me from my dream. Plus problems with my friends, ex-bf, etc. I thought that killing myself would make me free from all those problems. I was wrong, I have to fix the problem, not running away from it.
[b]Suicide isn't the solution to problems.[b] Those people who feels unwanted should try talking to other people about it.
Posted 26 May 2005 - 07:37 PM
How do I know so much? I've considered and attempted suicide before and just couldn't do it because I kept thinking about how many people I would hurt.
In general, sucide, again, is tragic, but...it was the only way the victim felt that he or she could release from the pain. I think therapy and speakers will help ease the rate of suicide and those considering it.
Posted 02 June 2005 - 10:27 AM
Speaking of hurting your loved ones.. time will heal all wounds. even if u die, the world will still proceed and people will still move on. Your family and friends will recover in due time.
Posted 02 June 2005 - 01:18 PM
Posted 02 June 2005 - 01:22 PM
Posted 02 June 2005 - 02:18 PM
Though it's a terrible thing for them, it's also a relief for the pain to be washed away ...
Posted 02 June 2005 - 02:56 PM
Suicide is the coward's way out of everything. It's the same as shutting the game down when you're losing; you're just giving up.
Because you are going to give up on one of life's challenges, you are a loser. You are not strong enough to put on a bold face and charge blindly into the storm.
Even if people tell me "but they're so depressed from all the bad stuff that happen to them", I just say, "well heck with that, we've all been through our bad times before, and I'm still here aren't I?"
The thing is, I know why people suicide, and the reason isn't that great if you've experienced it yourself. Sure, everything MAY be bad like sin at that period of time (like what, a year or so?), but you have to be able to look past the hell you're going through and try to be optimistic. It's not easy, but it'll be worth it afterwards.
It's not like I'm disrespecting those that commit suicide for valid reasons (g/f or b/f dying (I'm talking more than just those average relationships), losing everything they have, etc), but some people suicide for the most superficial reasons.
There are also those that think when one loses their b/f or g/f, they're just wasting their life cause of a girl/guy. Only problem is that when one likes another, they're essentially giving a part of their life to the other person, so when he/she leaves, you don't exactly recover from it.
Physical scars may heal, but emotional or psychological scars remain until you die.
Edited by cosmic_avian, 02 June 2005 - 04:07 PM.
Posted 02 June 2005 - 03:10 PM
i actually pity the people who commit suicide. they think their life is so horrible and they can't stand it anymore so it's not worth living life anymore. they're wrong. maybe their life has its moments and sometime the moments get really bad. gosh! at least try to overcome it! seriosuly, what the hell? everyone has a point in their lives where everything just goes wrong but you dont see every single person commiting suicide. they're giving up too easily. some commit suicide for relationship problems. it's just a boy/girl. get over it. there a plenty of people out there so stop whining over one significant other. others might commit suicide because of family problems or something. confront them.
it's not like i have anything against people who commit suicide. it's just that i think they're giving up too easily and thinking killing themselves will make all the pain go away. but they have control over themselves. it's their choice to waste their life like that. it was all their decision.
Posted 03 June 2005 - 07:06 AM
but have you even been in the position when you're so depressed that you think the only way is suicide
some people who commit suicide think that nobody loves them
so they don't even know how many people they will hurt
Posted 03 June 2005 - 12:39 PM
We are all living die! That is a fact. Some would want to end it now. their choice. Sucide is the escape from reality for them. A fast and easy escape route.
Posted 03 June 2005 - 07:22 PM
Anyway I can't sucide because there is too much I haven't done yet and I like to face challenges head on instead of running away.
Posted 04 June 2005 - 02:35 AM
therefore suicide is not selfish but its so wrong
• Major Depression (also known as depression or clinical depression) is characterized by depressed mood, diminished interest in activities previously enjoyed, weight disturbance, sleep disturbance, loss of energy, difficulty concentrating, and often includes feelings of hopelessness and thoughts of suicide.
Edited by Redmage, 04 June 2005 - 02:37 AM.
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