I read your post and realized, it's somewhat of an oxymoron. First you claim you don't believe in love, and yet you love yourself.
This is a kind of "Chicken or the Egg?" question. Just somewhat. This is what I think:
Living has no point without love, but how can you love unless you are living?
And so, I choose both. I wish to LiVE and LOVE.
Lastly, how old are you?
You did say it well.
The thing that is bothering me is that your saying, you cant live without love, but what if some people were born with out it? And they still live with a successful life? Another thing is, what you said was an an opinion.
If what you said was true, what do you call those people who pretends they love the person and screwing/doing random people and still living a successful life without getting caught?
The fact is. Thats your way of love and thats your way of living. Other people have their own way of living/loving too.
My belief in love is loving myself. I dont believe the love of the opposite sex love. Husband and wife relationship. I dont believe in loving other people as friends or nighbours. I just respect them.
Yes I'm older than you Nicole, and I had a complicated experience with love. No no one broke my heart or anything. No girl dumped me hard etc. Its just that it disappeared and I thought a lot about it.
I've been through tough times. And I know people had their tough times too but my tough time affected me that much and it changed my whole view of life.
I guess I was unprepared for the worst.
By the way, you guys need to remember to choose one and not wish for both. And explain why. There is no right and wrong answers here. Including opinions ofcourse.
I thought I made it clear.
Edited by SuYen, 10 December 2005 - 10:14 PM.