
Asian Parents
#76
Posted 29 March 2007 - 01:22 PM
Working for the store should be a responsibility.
Your dad looked after it to make money for you and your family, not because he felt it'd be fun.
And also, your dad has done so much for you since you were a child.
I think it'd be pretty fair for you to help him out.
&& about the hitting thing:
Sometimes you might look at your family and you think it's horrible, so you compare it to your peers. But do you actually know what goes on in all of their homes?
I remember when I was younger I used to get annoyed by my parents 24/7 because they bugged me to practise the piano and do my homework before watching tv. But after when I went to one of my friend's house, I realized that I should feel veryy lucky. Her mom would yell and hit her for not bringing something upstairs. She wouldn't even reason with her at all whenever they talked.
#77
Posted 30 March 2007 - 08:43 PM
im 16 n he's still heating me for not doing HIS dishes after he eats...*i ate b4 him
#78
Posted 02 April 2007 - 03:58 AM
I know asian parents all hit their children; it's part of their culture, but I don't know if it's right for my dad to continue hitting me when I'm already 17. He tends to lose control sometimes and screams over little things. It only happens sometimes; he's very loving most of the time, but it almost gets scary to be with him at times.
It makes me compare my life with other people my age and how they would be able to stand it if they were in my shoes.
One question:
Does your parents make you work in their store? I have to work at my dad's store (without pay) monday through saturday. I have to wake up everyday at 6:00 even though it's summer break and get home around 8. It would make me feel better if someone else was going through this kind of thing.
I have no idea what you're talking about.
If he's hitting you because he has a monkey up his ass then it's abuse.
#79
Posted 08 April 2007 - 10:43 AM
#80
Posted 08 April 2007 - 07:48 PM
caught me eyes when i first see it
well my parents are really strictly i had such horrible memories living
with them , but not my mom since shes really nice anyway
BUT my dad gave me alots of pressure and heart attack sometimes
he HIT me alots when i was a child , i still remember these days and todaii
but NOT much now since my mom told him to stop hitting me like an animal lol xD
im so scared of him - asian parents are somehow scaryy !!! to me
but theyre NICE , well just for somtimes
#81
Posted 09 April 2007 - 02:33 PM
I just pray to God if I ever have children, I won't treat them as coldly as I've witnessed other parents treat their children.
#82
Posted 11 April 2007 - 04:52 PM
um...mum has a short temper and randomly gets angry at me, then i get angry back =X and dad is usually nice but when he gets angry and yells it's like. RAWWWWR~
i'm 18. and i'm not allowed to go out. omgah x_X locked in my house...but i have bjj~
#83
Posted 22 April 2007 - 04:18 PM
Well...u shud tell that to my dad XD
im 16 n he's still heating me for not doing HIS dishes after he eats...*i ate b4 him
You do dishes seperately??
i never thought someone would get annoyed with their parents because of that.


#84
Posted 11 May 2007 - 02:45 AM
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