Naruta-chan

How come guys tend to be turned off (or not as aroused) if the girls initiate on say...


dates
intimacy
or sex?


For example, I went out with this dude on dates. And we both were very attracted to each other -- sensually.
Though he would always be the one initiating on kisses.

However, when I wanted it, leaning over to get one is quite difficult.
Yes, he gave me a simple kiss when I want it, but that was it.

So that really turned me off.
When he wanted to play around, I was in for the game... but it didn't work the other way around.
It had to be whenever he felt like it.

Also, with my ex, whenever I get "too aroused" it turned him off.
It was like he wanted to be the trigger of my arousal
and if I got too aroused that meant that I was enjoying it too much
which was not good.

My friend also said the same thing,
she said that the vibe that she got from her ex's & dates are that they
would like to be in control of their partner's sexual arousal.


Also,
say if the girls ask the guys out on dates
some say that it automatically turns the guy off

because they wanna have that "chase"
but once things come too easy for them
they simply disregard it
like "if something is that easy, it probably is"
or that means that the game has ended
and it doesn't present them with any challenge

why that mentality? why the stupid games?


So what do you guys/girls think?

jk!  

back to my old habbits again.



*sigh*
im feeling so down nowadays

but just wanna tell you all that it has been a great experience with you guys
the lil laughs we shared here and there.
but im getting to that "age"
not that it is a problem....but this is like my announcement of retirement (for those of you who wanna know)

My life right now has many downfalls....and I've decided to take a step back and get myself back into reality.

I told myself this many times, however i failed everytime.
but this time, I am going to cut off on my activities here online.

that means, no more music vids/performances download
though ANIME is a must---(only sticking to Naruto, Bleach, & Death Note for now)
No more many other stuff
I think I need to go in total isolation with me and my priorities

if you ever wanna chat with me...
and if you ever see me online, feel free to leave me a message.
MSN: Vietpuca@yahoo.com
AIM: Desunoto No Eru

So, with that said,
I am going to be off for at least half a year or more
and will return afterward.




note to the staffers:
I know that there are 2 more ppl that i need to send their money back
so, i'll get to it during spring break.

kuraudo: I'll get "Mr. D" to u as soon as I can. Im really sorry for the delay

Sexyboafan: Mommy is not feeling well at all....and I hope you can understand. I'll send u letters whenever possible. take care~

Anathel: just keep it cool man

fireangel: keep on singing

Padlet, Cocogirl, Dee, Xiaoyu, Steph, AND ALL MY OTHER FAVORITE GIRLS: the next time i see u again, I hope to see new changes....u guys are gonna be SOOO SEXYYYY!!!

TO ALL MY OTHER FAVORITE BOYS: I still love u! I'll see u half a year from now.

KEEP IT TIGHT EVERYONE!

just droppin' my hellos

finally back to normal.

how ya'll feelin'?

name 3 or less

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EDIT: opps!! i'm so sorry. i guess this is kind of a spam? would someone please move this then?

stream videos are the ones that start with mms:// instead of http://


i so need to dl this one video.

i think i remmber that there was this one program called "hinet" i think....but it's not on download.com anymore or soemthng

please help